hmmmm...a feeling once felt...
Ok Ok...well now that I got her pissed at me...maybe i'll just rant about the whole situation...lol...well anyways...this whole thing started when I found out her ex of 3 years wants to all of a sudden be friends with her...sooo this of course upsets me a lil bit...but then i begin to think of past situations that's happened with me before...like...this girl i was going out with for like three months who dumped her b/f for me...but yes...anyways after a lil bit...after her ex decides to keep bugging her and bugging her to be "friends" so i don't think much of it because i trusted her y'know... but after about another month she started disappearing and not answering the phone when i called and such...so then she didn't want to kiss me or any shit like that anymore...so then I found out from a friend that her and her ex were seen at the mall together holding hands and acting like they're together...sooooooo then I go then after about 2 weeks of straight arguing I find out the truth...sooo yea...didn't want to talk to her anymore...her ex wanted to fight and all this other stupid shit...and i don't want a repeat of this...I mean I trust my g/f I really do..but i'm afraid that this might happen again...so i brought this up to her and it just seemed to piss her off...soooooo yea....anyways...any input is certainly appreciated.
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eyecandy4042 on
hey,
i would just trust her, if she says that they are just friends then let it be. i know it's hard because it has happened in the past, but if she cares for u then there should be nothing to worry about. but if she starts to become scarce, then start asking questions...
dreamangel on
I agree with eyecandy, if she really cares about you then nothing will happen but if it does then at least you'll know what kind of person she is before you get in deeper with her. Also you may want to question why she got pissed. She shouldn't have gotten pissed if nothing is going to happen but then again she might think that you don't trust her. Maybe you should assure her that you do trust her and if you care for her and don't want to loose her try explaining that to her too and that your just worried. She might think your comparing her to the other girl and that may also upset her. I don't know the whole situation so if you already sd this stuff to her or I'm off then I'm sorry.
Shazall on
Well Lets be honest with outselves. Can you really trust her even if you wanted to? I mean i am sure she is a wonderful girl and will not cheat on you. But when things of the past happen they way they do they change your whole life and they change who and what you are. It sucks it truly does but just try and talk it out with her and be upfront with her about your trust issues and hopefully she will understand because honestly trust issues dont just go away. I wish they did but they do not so she must understand this and you must try to react in the correct manner no matter how hard that may be. Good Luck!
